Good relationships are built on love, faithfulness and trust. If a well-built relationship starts to fall apart, it is more likely that one of the partners has failed to commit to these virtues.
Since no relationship is similar to another, there is no definitive way to describe what causes relationships to breakdown. However, through the evaluation of most broken relationships, it is clear that cheating is one of the leading relationship killers.
So how do you know that your partner is cheating? Let’s find out.
In our experience there are some common tell tale signs that your partner could be cheating. But we mention this with caution, if your partner does show any of these signs it’s important not to accuse them right away as their reasons for displaying these habbits could be caused by something else, or if they are cheating it could cause them to be more cautious.
A sudden change of habits
One main sign that we see often in cheating partners is a sudden chang of habits. Common behaviour habits changes can include a sudden interest in their appearance, spending longer hours at work, poor communication, and sudden interest in a new hobby. Of course, some of these could be innocent enought but if you start to see a pattern or a combination it could be an indication that your partner is cheating.
More frequent arguments
Although arguments are common in any relationship, you should be alarmed if they keep occurring and often over things that don’t matter too much. Uncommon indifferences may arise due to delegation of duties in the home, money issues, and family events.
If you find small disagreements are leading to large arguments this could be a sign of a partner being unfaithful.
Technology use-related signs
Now that technological devices such as phones and computers have become an essential part of our lives, it is easier to detect infidelity signs through them. For example, in the case of a smartphone, you should always be on the lookouts for signs such as receiving more messages than usual, turning the screen away from you while texting and change of security passwords.
If you are noticing your partner has started carrying their phone around with them more often or leaves the screen face down to hide the messages coming through there is a chance that your partner is up to no good.
Closed off emotions
Under normal situations, your partner is supposed to be connected to you emotionally. However, if you notice that your partner is being more closed off than usual they are likely hiding something. Surprisingly, if your partner is more affectionate than usual, there is also something amiss being covered up.
If you are on the recieving end of more gift or flowers than usual this could be a sign of guilt from your partners end. However, please don’t accuse them of anything because they may just be appreciating you more.
Generally, you are supposed to be very close to your partner. However, if you notice that your partner is avoiding you even when you are supposed to be together, you should be on the lookout for external forces in your relationship.
If your partner stops wanting to go out in public with you or wants to stay in more this could also be a sign of trouble in your relationship.
If you observe any of these signs, you should act as soon as possible to avoid serious heartbreak. In some cases, there may be a misunderstanding in what you suspect of your partner, so don’t always conclude that they are in the arms of another person without gathering more evidence first.
Gathering evidence against a partner can be difficult for you so if you would like help you should consider hiring a private investigator. Private investigators are affordable and can gather information in a discreet way which won’t alert your partner.
If you do catch your partner cheating you can then decide what to do with the evidence collected. If there are no signs of foul play at least you then get a piece of mind that your partner isn’t cheating.
Get in touch with us to see if we can help with your situation. Our operatives are discreet and have many years of experience in helping catching cheating partners.