As private investigators in Bristol, we often get hired in situations where a partner believes another to be unfaithful. Some of the time this is true and can lead to separation. However, sometimes when a partner is found to be unfaithful this can save a marriage. This may sound crazy to you but once a problem is identified it can then be worked on.
Of course, not all marriages can be saved but in this article, we will give you some tips on how you can save your marriage and also some of the best Marriage counselling services in Bristol that we recommend.
Signs your marriage can be saved.
If both spouses want out of marriage then there isn’t much that can be done or there isn’t a point of doing so. In this instance, it would be much better to separate amicably and go their separate ways. However, if both spouses are willing to work on the marriage and the cheating partner is willing to admit their problems then the problem can be worked on.
Knowing there are problems and that you aren’t perfect is a good start. It’s good, to be honest about this too, look at the reasons why you cheated, or why you performed a certain action and communicate it with your partner. Lack of communication can have a knock-on effect. If your partner does something that changes your mood or vice versa it can be a vicious cycle.
If you are both open and honest about this it is a good sign your marriage can be worked on.
Being cheated on or cheating on your partner can have devastating effects on your relationship but it doesn’t have to. The person being cheated on or the person doing the cheating doesn’t have anything wrong with them and it’s often the sign of a problem in a relationship.
You need to find out what the problem is and then work on that.
As a private investigation firm in Bristol, we feel we have given you some tips on how to work on your relationship. But we would encourage you to seek out professionals in marriage counselling if you do want to save your marriage.
As a company that has offices in Bristol, we have a list of recommended marriage counselling services in Bristol below.
Recommended services
Here is a list of workshops and services in the Bristol area you can use to help with the problems in your marriage.
Imago Relationships
Imago relationships run a practical martial counselling workshop in Bristol and is run by Harille Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt. Couples around the country have used their services to help save their marriage.
They offer relationship therapy and marriage counselling sessions year-round.
You can find out more on their website:
Bristol Counselling Practice
The Bristol counselling practice is also another good choice for couples looking to save their relationship. The Bristol counselling practice is run by Caroline Sutton and she is a registered BACP Counsellor and Psychotherapist.
You can find out more about Caroline and the services she offers on her website:
http://bristolcounsellingpractice.co.uk/caroline-sutton-psychotherapist-counsellor
Paul James Counselling
For couples with Marriages or relationships on the rocks, Paul James is an excellent counselling option.
Paul uses a wide variety of strategies that can help you as a couple communicate more effectively and he also looks into past issues which are being brought up so you can move forward as a couple.
Paul is Relate trained and BACP qualified. You can find out more information about Paul on his website:
Conclusion
As a private investigation service, it’s never nice for us to see people being unfaithful when they hire us for our surveillance services but unfortunately, that’s part of our job. If we do catch your partner cheating at least you now know there can be ways of saving your marriage if you both want to.
Thank you for reading and if you need help with any private investigation needs please get in touch with us.
